Men are from Mars and

Women are from venus. Do you ever wonder why your man acts the way he does? Is there a communication gap between the two of you?

For a long time, my husband and I have had a communication problem. He tends to hide in his world of virual reality and I tend to close up. So there was a wall being built between the two of us. I just didn't pay attention until he told me, *I'm not happy anymore* Well duh, should have told me this ages ago.

We are now making an effort to communicate more, life isn't perfect but at least we are making an attempt.

I am a person that craves attention, and he is one that tends to like be by himself. So where do we fit in?
I wonder how many other couples are going through the same thing.
Take a look at your other half and ask yourself, *Is this the person that I fell in love with?* *What can I do to make it better?*

Have you set time for the two of you to spend time together? Sometimes our lives get so entwined with the job, kids, other family members that we tend to forget
our other halves.

I am a firm believer that you have to make yourself happy, because no one else will. In the meantime, what happens to the partnership in marriage?

I would love to hear others points of views.

Monday Morning!!

I am finally learning how to sleep in, after many years of waking up at 5 am, I think I am finally learning to stay in bed and relax.

I had a great weekend. Started out Friday night, went to Bartow to do a
Two Sisters show for a wonderful friend. Took me out of my box and made me learn how to reach out to others.

Saturday, I did another Two Sisters Show. Friends asked me how many shows would I like to do a month and I said as many as I can fit in. I love my business.

Sunday was a day of relaxation. It seemed like I was just run down and needed time to relax. Hubby was watching the Tampa Bay Bucs beat the Packers. I read, relaxed and watched TV.

With requests from many people, I relaunched Soapreview. But it is now called Soapreview Rules. If any of you watch soaps, we had the hottest Soap Opera Web site about 5 years ago. You will remember the name. We had Top Soap Opera Stars from all my children on Phone calls and chat.

Time for the What interesting online person did I meet lately?

That would have to be Jennifer Fitch, She is a mother of 3 beautiful children, two boys ages 8 and 4, and a princess that will be 1 Nov. 08. She is married to her wonderful husband and love of her life. She is a full time college student online. She has her own Sewing business, sell Spa Girl Parties and Scentsy.

If you have the time stop by Jennifers Sites to check things out. Be sure to tell her Deanna sent you.

When do you stop being a mom and become....

a woman? I don't mean stop all together but do you really get to spend ME time.
When I was a young kid, I thought all I want to do is get married, have kids and life will be wonderful. I was right sort of, things were wonderful but....

Where did I disappear to? There were no more relaxing times. No more time with friends and family without changing diapers, chasing kids, or wiping snot.
Don't get me wrong, I do love my kids and maybe I should have distinguished the time and set limits but I didn't.

Now that they are older, I sit back and wonder where did time go.
Where's the sound of running feet, laughter and of course, squabbles between the 4 of them.

Now it is so quiet around here, now I can have my relaxation and peace. When I want to have the hustle and bustle, I just have to call the kids and tell them to come on over. But I can also send them back home, when I have had enough.

Do I regret my kids? Oh no!! Each of them have a different personality and they are all terrific in their own ways, I wouldn't change them for the world.
But it would have been nice to have Nanny 911 around.

What a Crazy day yesterday!!

Yesterday was just a nutty day for me. Don't know why I couldn't get things straight.

Yesterday, I had a job interview (so I thought) wanted to be 15 minutes early. Got dressed, looked professional, got there 15 minutes early and sat and waited. Waited and Waited, and Waited some more. One of the girls came out and said that I was supposed to be here tomorrow, which is today. Confused yet? So she said, "Come back at 11 and we'll fit you in". Came back at 11 and Waited and Waited and Waited some more. By now, I was wondering what was going on. The same waitress came back and said, "Sorry, we cant fit you in today, youll have to come back tomorrow".

I was upset that she told me to come back at 11 but it was my fault in the beginning, getting the day wrong. So off I am again today, for the job interview. It looks pretty good, I saw alot of my old friends and patients from the hospital.
I will still be in Customer Service, just on the Happy side of the people.

I am working on a Fall Contest for Two Sisters and Mia Bella Candles. It will be posted soon.

What interesting people did I meet yesterday? Ummm, let me see.
I met the interesting waitress, who told me to come back.
Here are the links to my other Work at Home Sites Feel free to check them out.
Deannas Scented Candles
Two Sisters Gourmet Foods

Wordless Wednesday

Today is supposed to be Wordless Wednesday but me being a woman, it's really hard not to say anything.
I attended a Two Sisters Meeting last night, and what an inspirational team. I am glad that I got to know what this company is all about.

Enough about work, I have met alot of online friends lately. Friends that I would have never gotten the chance to meet if it wasn't for the good ole pc.
Thank you, Journey2learn and Link Princess.

I am out the door, I will post some pics so that you can get to know more about me and my family when I get back home. In the meantime, feel free to check out the links.

Stand Tall, Stand Proud, I am an American and

I have always been proud to stand up for my country!!

Today, we remember all our loved ones that perished on 09-11-2001. Many people lost their lives, loved ones and employment. They lost their sense of belonging. Many people made it through the horrific experience and they have to relive that nightmare every day and every year for the rest of their lives. They say it will get better with time, tell that to the family and friends that have to relive that day over and over again.

Fast forward to here and now; Here we are again, the anniversary of that dreadful day.
I sit here and wonder what would have happened if we didn't strike back at those a*** that invaded our country that day. Would we be running and letting some foreigner take control of our country? You can bet your sweet booty we would be. Should we have swept it under the carpet and pretended it never happened? Not on your life.

I am so proud to be a Woman and American these days. I am proud to live in the Country that I live in. I am happy to be able to live the life that I have been living for the past 40 years. Sure times are tough and rough but we will survive. We are Americans and Americans can and will get through the good times and bad.

Its 1 am

and I am still up. Whats wrong with me??????
I haven't stayed up this long in a long time. I bet it's the Dr. Pepper I drank earlier. This is why I don't drink soda.

This is a short blog because eventually I want to go to sleep.
Just wanted to add the links to my web sites.

My Candles
Two Sisters gourmet Foods